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We realize that this may be the first time you
have ever considered meeting a woman by using a service like ours. This section is
intended to allow you to benefit from the experience of others. By speaking with
numerous
men and our experience as well as others in the business, we have compiled a
list of hints that
will prove beneficial in your research for a foreign woman. Even if you are an old hand at
this, it's never too late to learn something new.
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1. Do Not Send Money!!!
Just like anywhere, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of
your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign woman, not to
purchase one. We want you to be aware that you may contact women who will ask you for
money for one reason or another. If you are asked for money it should immediately set off
alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There are instances where there may be a
valid reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time.
In that instance it is recommended that you send it via wire (Western Union). We
support the
Anti-scam program |
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Include
a photo of yourself, and not just any photo. Take some time and put some thought into it.
For example, if you are the outdoors type you may want to take it while hiking or biking.
The point is to give the women the best possible representation of yourself. In order to
keep the costs of the photos to a minimum, you should consider choosing two or three of
your best photos and have color copies made instead of developing a new picture for each
reply. |
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Try
including a little something extra to let her know she is special. This could consist of a
pressed flower, or a picture of you as an infant or a toddler, or maybe a poem written in
her native language. The idea is to try and distinguish your response from others. |
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Remember
when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't
mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will
have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Try to avoid using four-
or five- syllable words; instead of impressing her, you will probably just confuse her.
Make sure you neatly print your letter as opposed to writing in cursive. If your
handwriting is difficult to read, you may consider typing it. |
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Try to
keep the initial letter fast-paced. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like
marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell
her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended.
Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write
about things that you would normally talk about on a first date. |
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Make sure
you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know
that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she
will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you
immediately. |
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You may
find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you
are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing
a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different
culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible
about that culture. |
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When you get to the point that you
want to visit the woman or women you are corresponding with,
we strongly recommend that you consider a well respected Romance
Tour Company. Traveling abroad is very different and can be
much more dangerous than domestic travel. With a Romance Tour
all you have to worry about is meeting the women you are interested
in, the Tour Company takes care of all the other details.
Even if you are interested in only one woman it makes sense
to go with a group simply for the support you will receive.
You never know what it’s going to be like once you meet
the woman in person. If it doesn’t work out and you are
with a Tour Group, you will have many options to meet other
women. Of course we feel our Romance Tours are the best in
the industry, but check them out for yourself! See:
Romance Tours,
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| 9.
When you get to the point of wanting to
marry the woman you have been corresponding with, we strongly
recommend the services of a reputable attorney who specializes in
immigration law. There are various ways of accomplishing citizenship,
and each must be explored to find the approach which will be optimal
for your situation. We have cursory information on immigration laws
and various visas, however this information is intended to serve as an
introduction only and must be supplemented with an attorney who
specializes in this area. We have a list of some attorneys who do
specialize in this area, however we recommend that you interview them
in order to find the one that you feel most comfortable with. |
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The last
and probably most important tip of all is be patient. Consider for a moment how long you
have been searching for that perfect mate: ten,
twenty, even thirty years? This is an important process and the results of the decision
that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many
different women before committing to that special one. One of the key features of our
service is that we are continuously updating our service with new women, thus giving you
new choices on an almost daily basis. This is probably one of the most important decisions
that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the
process! |
